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The new book offers a five-step dating process to find your life partner

Anyone who is tired of luring Mr. or Mrs. is wrong and still wants to find Mr. or Mrs. Right doesn’t need to look any further. Renée Michelle Gordon has the answer for you in the five-step process she developed to find her own soul mate, and now she shares that process so others can do the same in her new book Finding Your Love at Last.

If anyone has experience in finding love, it is Renée. In reality, she has been engaged nine times, but each time, she ended up breaking the engagement before going down the aisle because she realized that the man was not her perfect soul mate. She learned how to be attractive to men through online dating websites, but she also learned how to discern which men she dated. When she started dating online, she expected to find six or seven potential suitors, one of whom would become her “love at last.” Instead, she was overwhelmed by men who wanted to date her. Using just one dating website, he received no less than 2,874 invitations to connect. With such overwhelming numbers, how could anyone choose the right man?

Well, Renée did it through a careful five-step process. And since then, she has become a dating coach and shared her process with over 500 couples who have found lasting love, proof that her process definitely works. But he can’t help everyone who wants to find true love, so now he shares his process in this book to bring it to a wider audience.

Renée guides readers through the entire process, from how to create a winning online profile that attracts the right man or woman, and reminds the reader that they are only looking for one; it’s not a popularity contest, about how to weed out people from being your potential suitors, the questions to ask people on a date, how to interview potential soulmates without making them feel like they’re being interviewed, and stuff Defined to avoid, such as workplace appointments. It also warns us about potential red flags to look out for, what not to do on a date (like going to the movies), and why you should have your first meeting with someone in a place like a coffee shop where you just need to go. Commit to a half hour instead of agreeing to a two or three hour dinner commitment.

Renée’s process is easy to follow and the discussion is also enjoyable and entertaining. Most of the book has an interview format in which Renée is interviewed by Peter Lisoskie, whose experience as a talk show host helped make the questions interesting. Peter is also an expert on human behavior who contributed to the conversation by discussing his own dating experiences and sharing his knowledge of neuroscience to explain how our brains act when we seek love. The result is a book that makes readers feel like they are listening to two friends chatting in a coffee shop.

Plus, there’s a foreword by Jim Connelly, Renée’s husband of nearly fifteen years and counting. Throughout the book, Renée describes her and Jim’s relationship and how they determined that they were finally each other’s love and the process they went through to make sure the love would last.

While much of the book is about internet dating, Renée also offers tips on other places you can find love and how to connect with potential soul mates in social settings. The back of the book includes three special reports on how to get your mojo back, how to write a winning profile, and the top 21 dating websites. These special reports alone are invaluable and full of good advice. I especially loved the mojo, which can help you feel sexier and more attractive so that you send out the right vibe to attract Mr. or Mrs. Right.

Renée’s sparkling personality shines through throughout the book and the discussion is full of humor, but Renée will be the first to tell you that dating is a very serious process. She advocates removing emotion from the equation at least in the initial stages so that she can choose Mr. Right in a logical way; otherwise, he could become Mr. Wrong later on. Dating isn’t just about sexual chemistry, either; it’s about finding long-term compatibility. Renée doesn’t hold back any punches when telling things like they are, so readers will be cautious and constantly keep their best interests in mind rather than settling for the first person who comes along.

After reading this book and hearing the many stories Renée shares in it, I am convinced that Renée’s five-step process will work if you use it correctly. Reading this book will definitely be time well spent if you finally want to find your love.