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Orgasm denial: how to stop your man from cumming when he’s at the point of ‘no return’

One of the hardest things for a man to do when practicing male chastity and orgasm denial is physically stopping his orgasm when he is actually making love to his wife.

The often recommended course of action is to not allow her to make love at all, but that’s just a silly fantasy. Very few women would really want that – we love our men and we want all the emotional and physical connection of sex, even if we were adamant about not allowing them to orgasm.

So here are 4 simple tips and strategies that have come in handy in my own life:

Came

You can use this at any time and with any of the others in combination.

Why?

Because even a small amount of wine tends to dull the senses a bit and makes it easier for a man to control his own orgasm. It’s also great for relaxing both of you and putting you in the mood.

But, as I’m sure you can probably guess … you don’t want to overdo it. Too much can cause you to not perform at all (especially if you are over 40 years old).

As I think Shakespeare once said, “the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak” or something like that.

Not only that, but alcohol inhibits your rational thought processes and makes your emotions much more likely to make you say and accept things that may not be so smart when viewed in the cold light of day.

A quick move

If you’re making love and you have the feeling that he’s about to come and he’s obviously not making any attempt to stop, then a quick flick of your index finger on the tip of his penis will take the breath away from his sales.

It stings a bit, but it’s not that painful and it certainly won’t hurt you (even if you are prepared for the look on your face. I recommend that you warn this is what it will do. before you even start your foreplay).

A sudden squeeze

Another strategy you can use in circumstances similar to the above is when you are about to come, bend over, firmly grasp your penis with your thumb and forefinger, right where it meets your body, and give it a firm grip, almost like a pinch. .

This will stop it in its tracks. Again, warn her that this is what you are going to do if she looks like she is about to come.

The ruined orgasm

And the “last resort”, if you’ve been too slow with the other methods, is to give her a ruined orgasm. What this implies is as soon as he starts to cum, and it’s clear he can’t stop … you immediately stop everybody stimulus.

If you’ve never had a ruined orgasm, I can safely tell you that it is much, much worse than no orgasm. Ask my husband.

It doesn’t make sense, does it?

He.

But it’s true. I can’t explain why this is so, but it is. It’s like … when you don’t have an orgasm of any kind, you’re still high, halfway there, walking in a kind of semi-permanent orgiastic trance.

But with a ruined orgasm, you get the massive post-orgasm hormonal rush into your bloodstream, but none of the satisfaction of the orgasm proper.

I promise, you won’t want to experience this again, so you’ll be a lot more careful next time.

All of these techniques work and I encourage you to try them. It is not difficult to get into the rhythm of things; all it takes is a little study and a proper appreciation of the facts of male chastity and orgasm denial.