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Japanese guys think that European girls don’t like them, they are so wrong!

Muge and Masaki put on HelloTalk. Muge was trying to learn Japanese, so he thought that making friends could improve his Japanese. That time, Masaki wanted to learn Turkish because he wanted to ride a bike in Turkey. They started talking every day and after 3 months, they met in Izmir (their city in Turkey). It was summer and they had a lot of fun in Izmir, but Masaki had to go to another country since he had planned his trips beforehand. He asked her to wait for him. That was a difficult moment, but Muge, as she promised, she was waiting for him. On her first anniversary, Muge went to Japan and met her friends and family. They celebrated her anniversary at Tokyo Disneyland! Muge will return to Japan this winter and they hope to never be apart again.

questions to her
On our first date…

Well, when we put the first time we were just friends. We had so much fun together! Soon our feelings changed and for me, our first date was at the Natural Life park (a kind of zoo). That day was amazing! We were admiring many animals together, but secretly I was looking at him. That day I felt the love between us…

During the first few months of dating, my deciding factor would be…

The most important thing is to be honest in a “long distance relationship”. Actually, it is always the most important thing, but in our situation, it is essential.

I learned that He is the one for me when…

I always felt that our love seemed anime. When I met him, I already began to understand that nothing would ever be the same again. He changed everything in my life. He broke down my walls and my love grew more intense day by day. I felt the same thing happened to him too. I feel like I can’t be without him. I want to learn more about him every second.

I had a culture shock when He…

Sure, we had some of them, but they weren’t much. I learned that the Japanese bathe together with their relatives; sisters brothers and parents. For them, this is very normal, but in my culture it is a bit weird. In my culture, bathing with your kid is fine, but that’s about it, haha.

I felt a bit surprised haha.

3 things I love about him are…

I love your pure mind and heart; They are like children. You can understand their feelings. You can’t hide things. He always wants to share his thoughts with me. I love his eyes, especially when he looks at me. He makes me feel his love from all my heart. Usually, Japanese people do not have green eyes or bright eyes, but they do have greenish-yellow eyes. His eyes are big when he’s not smiling (haha). Also, he is very persistent as he always keeps trying. He doesn’t care what anyone else thinks and keeps trying anyway. I always feel nervous when I try something for the first time, usually in public, because I would feel bad if I failed. So try to make me brave and believe in myself. He is strong.

The biggest misconception about His country and culture was…

I didn’t feel any of that for their country or their culture. Some people say that Japanese people can be cold sometimes.

However, when I put it on I understood that this is so wrong. They are just shy. When you start talking to them, they open up, they are very nice and friendly.

The most beautiful thing he did for me was…

One day when he came to Turkey to visit me, he was not allowed to enter my country. They forced him to stay at the airport and told him to go back to his country. He was panicking and very sad that I couldn’t see him again for a long time. So he tried to convince security to let him see me before he came back. I went to the airport to see him. He wanted to cry because he came all the way to see me and he went through a lot of trouble. But he didn’t care. He just smiled at me and said that he was very happy.

During this relationship, the most important thing I learned about myself was…

I am not very patient. But when you love someone, you start to learn to be more patient. If you can be patient, you can hug your partner again. It could be the most amazing feeling you will ever have. I feel so free inside now.

If there is one piece of advice I could give to my Western friends who are in AMWF relationships, it would be…

I know that we are so different, starting with our body shape, face shape, culture, the way we act, etc. A lot of things. However, I think that being different makes you learn a lot of things from your relationship. And you will also have a lot of fun!

Long distance relationship is a precious thing because you can learn to be patient and understand your feelings well. So, you can do many beautiful things for your loved ones when the time comes.

So don’t be afraid to love people from different cultures. They love each other in a different way but I use them, you will feel so special!

Love does not have a form. You can’t put love in a box. Love is free. If you love want to fly over the ocean, let it go and enjoy this pure love with your partner. Be brave.

questions to him
Asking her out for the first time was…

nerve destruction. We set in your city for the first time. We didn’t ask each other out on a date, we just met because we knew each other from the internet. He was so nervous and shy that he couldn’t look her in the face. Also, he couldn’t speak English at the time, so he made me even more nervous. It was just a nervous day.

I learned that Ella is right for me when…

it was happening day by day. I think if it happened suddenly, that would not be a good sign.

The important thing is to get closer little by little to have time to understand that she is the right one for me. I still want to learn more about her and with her. My feelings towards her are true.

I had a culture shock when she…

well, when i came to turkey for a month i wanted to stay with her. But in their culture, couples cannot live together before engagement or marriage. I was surprised that time because in Japan it is a normal thing to live together before marriage.

3 things I love about Ella are…

With her, I don’t need to hide my childish side and I don’t need to hide my passions.

I love your kindness. She takes care of me. She always responds very quickly to my messages and uses a lot of emoji. She strives to improve herself and her life. She always tries to be better for me.

The biggest mistake about your country and its culture was…

that Turkey is dangerous and not safe. Before going to Turkey, people said not to go there because it was not safe. People really don’t know anything about Turkey and that’s why they are afraid of it.

The Turks are very friendly and especially very friendly with the Japanese. At first I thought they were just being friendly because they wanted some money or something else in return. But then I found out they don’t want anything from you. They are doing it for no specific reason.

The things he likes to do with me for fun are…

when we can talk that is the happiest moment for me. It’s very important. When he tries new things with me and succeeds, he has a lot of fun! I am adventurous and like to try many different things, and eventually you will do them with me.

She hates when I…

do something dangerous during my travels. She always worries me when we’re not together.

During this relationship, the most important thing I learned about myself was…

I am still learning about myself. Perhaps the most important thing is being able to share feelings with other people.

In Japan, we don’t hug each other out of shyness. However, I learned to be more friendly and not hide my feelings.

If there is one piece of advice I could give to my Asian friends who are in AMWF relationships, it would be…

The Japanese think it’s hard to date Western women. It’s wrong, I think Asians and other people are the same. We are all human, yet somehow the Japanese think that the Europeans are not interested in them. That “they are not enough”.

I thought that way too, but after traveling, I think some women would like to have Asians as partners. I hope Asians learn from this and believe in themselves more. Do something, get ready and go. And even if you fail once or twice, you will learn something new about the world and about yourself. Learning is the most important experience in life, regardless of whether it is good or bad for you.