Dirty text messages: writing to excite the senses
Just think of all the possibilities sending a dirty message offers you.
Not only can you take your time and send a message that you have thought about, worked hard and fine-tuned to be the height of intoxication for your lover, but you can also send him a message at any time.
Gone are the days of accidentally interrupting them during a meeting and having their dirty, erotic conversation interrupted by a hesitant “Listen, can I call you back, honey? I’m in the middle of something with the CFO!”
Eek! I hope they weren’t hands-free.
Now they can receive your lewd thoughts at any time, read them discreetly, and get extremely aroused, all while attending a meeting with the CFO!
So what is the best type of dirty text message to send them?
Something to make them think, to introduce an element of provocation and denial.
Here is a golden opportunity to give your lover some serious teasing. Soft, sensual and erotic texts that talk about what you want them to do to you or you to them, little by little building a series of 4 or 5 texts that they receive during the course of the day will leave them gasping with desire, watching the clock tick. until home time.
Cheeky texts, while very nice to receive, don’t last as long or come close to the teasing factor that soft, slightly erotic texts have.
Break them up gently: Start by sending them a simple message that says something like “I really miss you baby, I think of you and I can kiss and hug you” is nice, gentle, and starts rolling slowly.
You can then start to build the lust factor by encouraging his participation.
“If you were here now, what would you like us to do?”
Hopefully, he’ll come back with something similar that describes exactly what he wants to do to you.
Follow their lead, take their suggestions and build on them. Use your knowledge of you and him together, the things you like to do and how you like to do them and send him a text.
Remember, build everything slowly: don’t send him a first message that basically tells him to come home and grab you!
You have to time your messages so that he can get more and more nervous, culminating in him sending a text just before he gets off work that praises him for coming home and delighting you! If you are also at work, send him a final message that encourages him to get home before you and prepare the bed, sofa or whatever you are going to use.
Use your dirty texts as a slow method of talking dirty, not a quick hit and you should get the same in return!
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